Ok so I'm a first time mother and I had my first appointment today with Dr. Dabney. Hamner and he was awful! Any recommendations on a good OBGYN? Someone who actually acts like they care about you and your well-being. Hamner didn't even introduce himself or there was no, "hi, how are you?" Just nothing welcoming and friendly about him at all and he was in and out didn't tell me hardly anything. I would prefer a female.