Sara asks: have a few questions my first question is is it normal for you take your child to the doctor for them to always look at your sons penis and if so why are they looking at his penis? my second question is it appropriate for the doctors to ask if you have family support and if the father is in the picture ? and also if there is any doctors that anyone recommend thats good for a child that isn't going to make me feel like I'm a bad parent or something because my child is sick and I am stressed out because I have a sick child so they don't end up trying to question my authority??