I just heard some great information on the way home from work Calvin. There is a ministry called www.maritalhealing.com and it is owned by Dr. Fitzgibbons and he and his team are ready to help people with marital problems. You should look them up or call them. They are in Pennsylvania. But, they help people long distance all over the country. They have helped thousands of couples. They are catholic faith based but I think worth talking to.