The times I needed someone and I refused to let anyone in is a lesson hard learned. My son desperately needed me tonight but I was not allowed to come and help. It was because he was punished but when you get a text with the words suicide in them. You take notice and take it serious. My ex is the type to call the police on me if I were to intervene in thier problems. I decided I have no choice but to go to court for custody. He clearly needs me and she clearly is unable to handle his growing pains. He keeps coming to me and I feel helpless even if I feel the punishment is just. I cannot bear to hear him hurting. Anyone know of a decent family lawyer that is not gender biased in the area?