I have a 5 yr old, 15 lb cockapoo that has been rejected by 4 groomers; he is very nervous and doesn't tolerate groomings well. The vet gave me a perscription for Xanax for him, but I haven't found a groomer that will take him if he is medicated. My husband and I have tried to groom him ourselves but we are not very good at it. Any suggestions? Thanks for your input.