okay ladies I need your help. I need to find new OBGYN, the one I am going to only seems to be concerned about my weight. I get it, I know I am a big, bigger girl than what is consider normal. I have explained to them that this is not a permanent situation. Yet they are bent on getting me to take some tests that will classify me as morbidly obese and to take Lexapro while pregnant. They say the benefits to me outweighs the risk to the baby. And what are the risks to the baby? Spontaneous miscarriage. Does that sound reasonable to yall? I am so frustrated.. I'm already 4 months but I need find someone with values. What is even more frustrating is this practice is supposedly Christian.. yeah right. Did I mention that they said it was my fault I lost my other baby.... yeah apparently being fat is what caused it.