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Elizabeth Louise Massage Therapist
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My name is Elizabeth.
I was born in 1991, I am the eldest child of three. I have two brothers who were born in 1993 & 1995.
I am a survivor of child abuse & neglect.
My father abused my brothers and I from as early as I can remember. He was an alcoholic. My mother allowed my father to abuse us and was in and out of Mental Health hospitals when we were growing up.
Despite Children's Services being involved with our family we were never removed from our parents; my father denied any allegations put infront of him and my mother lied to protect him; years later it was found that the Social workers chose not to investigate the situation further as they were scared of him.
My brothers and I were neglected, we were not fed or cleaned and we were abused in every way imaginable. The only respite we got was when we went to school, however this was not often as we were mostly kept at home to hide our bruises and keep our fathers secrets safe. Part of me loved being at school because I could just be a normal girl but part of me dreaded it, I was aware that I was unwashed and filthy, I was infested with head lice and I was bullied for the way I looked and smelled.
I would try constantly to care for my baby brothers, after their beatings with belts or other weapons I would try and offer them the love and support I knew they needed, I remember the three of us crying together, asking each other how we were going to survive. I can only describe my childhood as living in hell. Some days I did not want to be alive and I would pray that I would die.
Finally in 2003 when we were age 11, 9 & 7 we were removed from our parents care and placed in Foster care, we were split up immediately from one another and homed individually, I went from being with my brothers every minute of every day to seeing them at a supervised contact session once a month.
In 2011 West Sussex Council admitted liability for their grave failings and paid myself & my 2 brothers a substantial amount of compensation for... show more our lost childhoods.
My father went to prison when he was found guilty of his crimes against us and he remains on the sex offenders register today.
My parents are still together, my mum chose to stand by my dad and not have a relationship with her children. Since we were removed from her care she has not once been hospitalised, I believe this is because when we were there she needed the 'break' from him and what he was doing to us.
After I was rescued I stayed with one amazing foster mum & foster dad who has since sadly passed away (another hell of a trauma) for who immediately showed me what I'd never had - love, kindness & compassion, I still call her mum to this day. In between being with her I also lived with my Grandparents; whilst I was with my biological parents they were allowed minimal input and had no idea of the abuse reigned upon us who gave me the education and strong mind I have today.
I had therapy to help me deal with my trauma and I started to heal.
I am now a mum to my 2 sons and I have an amazing supportive husband.
I have begun this page, in the hope I can help other people who have or are enduring childhood abuse, in any shape or form, for anyone that needs help or support right now with something they think they maybe witnessing or on behalf of someone else. I want to help end the suffering that is child abuse.
I am a qualified therapist and specialist in sports massage therapy along with 7 other massage therapies listed in my services to help people...but I also offer an open service where people can contact me to talk about anything that they are going through....
Thank you for reading my story
I run my business page now along side the support page, many people chose massage for the instant relieve of stress and anxiety, it helps to put your mind and body in a state of relaxation allowing every day worries easier to deal with. Many other people will chose it for
- Health conditions such as poor immune systems
- Sport Injury problems
- Lymph drainage issues
- Winter blues
- Sleeping problems
- Anxiety & self esteem issues
- Nutrition advise
- Relaxation
- Time to themselves
- Sports injuries
- Sprains and Stains
- Back Pain
- Pregnancy (2nd Stage)
- Headaches
- Pre and Post event massage
- Period Pain
- Joint & ligament pain
- Trapped nerves
& the list can go on , pretty much anything can be treated by myself.
Whatever you choose your massage for I am sure to help you, by leaving me in a more relaxed and comfortable state of mind and body.
My email address is elmtherapist@gmail.com
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I was born in 1991, I am the eldest child of three. I have two brothers who were born in 1993 & 1995.
I am a survivor of child abuse & neglect.
My father abused my brothers and I from as early as I can remember. He was an alcoholic. My mother allowed my father to abuse us and was in and out of Mental Health hospitals when we were growing up.
Despite Children's Services being involved with our family we were never removed from our parents; my father denied any allegations put infront of him and my mother lied to protect him; years later it was found that the Social workers chose not to investigate the situation further as they were scared of him.
My brothers and I were neglected, we were not fed or cleaned and we were abused in every way imaginable. The only respite we got was when we went to school, however this was not often as we were mostly kept at home to hide our bruises and keep our fathers secrets safe. Part of me loved being at school because I could just be a normal girl but part of me dreaded it, I was aware that I was unwashed and filthy, I was infested with head lice and I was bullied for the way I looked and smelled.
I would try constantly to care for my baby brothers, after their beatings with belts or other weapons I would try and offer them the love and support I knew they needed, I remember the three of us crying together, asking each other how we were going to survive. I can only describe my childhood as living in hell. Some days I did not want to be alive and I would pray that I would die.
Finally in 2003 when we were age 11, 9 & 7 we were removed from our parents care and placed in Foster care, we were split up immediately from one another and homed individually, I went from being with my brothers every minute of every day to seeing them at a supervised contact session once a month.
In 2011 West Sussex Council admitted liability for their grave failings and paid myself & my 2 brothers a substantial amount of compensation for... show more our lost childhoods.
My father went to prison when he was found guilty of his crimes against us and he remains on the sex offenders register today.
My parents are still together, my mum chose to stand by my dad and not have a relationship with her children. Since we were removed from her care she has not once been hospitalised, I believe this is because when we were there she needed the 'break' from him and what he was doing to us.
After I was rescued I stayed with one amazing foster mum & foster dad who has since sadly passed away (another hell of a trauma) for who immediately showed me what I'd never had - love, kindness & compassion, I still call her mum to this day. In between being with her I also lived with my Grandparents; whilst I was with my biological parents they were allowed minimal input and had no idea of the abuse reigned upon us who gave me the education and strong mind I have today.
I had therapy to help me deal with my trauma and I started to heal.
I am now a mum to my 2 sons and I have an amazing supportive husband.
I have begun this page, in the hope I can help other people who have or are enduring childhood abuse, in any shape or form, for anyone that needs help or support right now with something they think they maybe witnessing or on behalf of someone else. I want to help end the suffering that is child abuse.
I am a qualified therapist and specialist in sports massage therapy along with 7 other massage therapies listed in my services to help people...but I also offer an open service where people can contact me to talk about anything that they are going through....
Thank you for reading my story
I run my business page now along side the support page, many people chose massage for the instant relieve of stress and anxiety, it helps to put your mind and body in a state of relaxation allowing every day worries easier to deal with. Many other people will chose it for
- Health conditions such as poor immune systems
- Sport Injury problems
- Lymph drainage issues
- Winter blues
- Sleeping problems
- Anxiety & self esteem issues
- Nutrition advise
- Relaxation
- Time to themselves
- Sports injuries
- Sprains and Stains
- Back Pain
- Pregnancy (2nd Stage)
- Headaches
- Pre and Post event massage
- Period Pain
- Joint & ligament pain
- Trapped nerves
& the list can go on , pretty much anything can be treated by myself.
Whatever you choose your massage for I am sure to help you, by leaving me in a more relaxed and comfortable state of mind and body.
My email address is elmtherapist@gmail.com
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4 recommendations and reviews from 3 people
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Referral from
April 22, 2014
Worthing D. asked:Please post anon. I am looking for a massage therapist to come to my house in Worthing tomorrow. No beauty massages I want an effective holistic/deep tissue massage Got heaps of tension and knots. Pm me if you help. Thanks alot
Gemma W. replied:https://www.facebook.com/pages/Elizabeth-Louise-Massage-Therapist/1405329869680852
Elizabeth M. replied:I will look for Elizabeth Louise massage therapist x
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Referral from
January 30, 2017
Alexandra B. asked:Please help! Iv got what I think is a trapped nerve in my eighth shoulder blade, I can't move much right now and pain is excruciating I can't lift up my baby or lift my head up straight, iv tried to move and stretch but nothing, is there somewhere I can go to get it sorted? Sport massage or something to help pop it out?Elizabeth H. replied:Hi Alexandra Bufton sorry your in pain. I am a professional sports massage therapist I work at home , out call & for a professional football team. You can always give me a ring on 07581011377. Elizabeth x
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Referral from
October 31, 2013
Bognor-news g. asked:Inbox- : hello im looking for somewhere local that does excerise classes at a cheap/reasonable price thank you
Elizabeth H. replied:https://www.facebook.com/pages/Elizabeth-Louise-Massage-Therapist/1405329869680852
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