ALSO, how is it possible for the nurse at your assessment to say that your child is at risk of being placed in a nursing facility (we mentioned looking into st.marys) & then you receive a letter saying that they decided he WAS NOT at risk ?! She sat in my living room and said he was and now this letter says he isn't , even though we mentioned looking into a home. I'm literally at my breaking point. We applied in Virginia beach, got denied. I did the appeal, got denied. We then decided to purchase a house in a different city to continue fighting. We had our assessment, it was denied. My son is far from typical. He is in his own world. He does not talk. He is violet. I am literally lost. I don't feel like I can keep doing this. Is there an attorney anybody can recommend that will not make me go into debt. This is our last shot at this. I can't mentally handle getting denied again. I feel like the world is against me.