Posting for someone else (she hasn't announced her pregnancy yet, and some this is an open group didn't want to disclose yet) if anyone here can help out I'll get her in touch with you! :-) Thanks ladies!
"We just found out we are expecting #2, but shhh no one knows. This one was a surprise after an infertility battle with #1. I desperately wanted a natural birth with my son. I did Hypnobabies and loved it. I was doing awesome for the 8 hours I was at home but when I started vomitting and shaking I mistakenly thought I was in transition and went to the hospital. It was all down hill from there. I was only dilated to 3 and stuck in triage for 10 hours bc the hospital was full. I lost all concentration being poked and prodded at and opted for an epi. My labor ended up being 23 hrs total. So my 2 questions are this, 1. I would like to have a doula this time, but being a one income household, I'm not sure I can afford one. How much do they cost? Is there a possibility of finding a doula in training for cheap or free? 2. Despite my experience, I really liked St. Marys bc they seemed a bit more natural minded than some however, our insurance changed to BCBS Select and we can no longer use Tenova. I have to switch OBs. Any reccomendations on natural friendly doctors that don't deliver at tennova? I'd love to see a midwife but insurance won't cover it. And I'd prefer to be in a hospital setting just in case. Sorry so long, thanks ladies."